Peoples responses to a recent BBC poll on sexual attitudes gave some surprising answers! As a divorce lawyer I was particularly interested to see what people felt counted as “adultery”. Interestingly men and women’s responses appear to have been quite different and many saw cyber sex as “cheating”.

The law in this country would not agree. For there to be an adultery divorce petition there needs to be sexual intercourse by the respondent. The intercourse must be between a consenting man and woman.

The legal definition of adultery does not cover emotional relationships or sexual intimacy. Nor does it include cyber sex.

In such circumstances the Petitioner would need to detail the unreasonable behaviour of their spouse to commence divorce proceedings.

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